Tuesday, June 20, 2023
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I don't know where to begin. I am 52 and have known David since I was born, one could say even before I was born: he and Judy have been friends of my family for 3 generations, I have spent a lot of time with them over my life. We visited from abroad and as kids we couldn't have lucked out more than being taken care of by the Eckwielens. We went to so many places, ate lots of delicious all-american food and had lots of unforgettable adventures thanks to all four of them. Judy and Dave belong to a generation of strong and uncomplaining adults, smiling even when life deals you some bad cards together with the good ones, always welcoming friends. When my wife and I decided to get secretly married, Judy and Dave were our only guests at our very small wedding, and our witnesses! It was also Dave's birthday, so we're reminded of both events every May Day.
Dave was big and strong and towered over us all for a long time, he had that true american passion for the outdoors where he taught us kids to belong and feel at home. He was more of a hunter than a fisherman but he taught me so much about fishing in those early years, including conservation: I will never forget that big lake trout which had to be released and I never forgot the lesson it taught me. Thankfully every so often we were able to grill a few trout beside those delicious burgers. David was certainly self reliant, knew how to fix anything and was wonderful with kids because he had a lot he could show and share with them.
I am now teaching my children how to enjoy the outdoors, how to fish and, with the environment not what it used to be, protecting it rather than spoiling it. Every time I hold their hands while crossing a river, I am reminded of that strong adult hand that can help you wade across the currents without losing your footing. That was Dave for us.
Lorenzo and Sikimeti
